That the way it is

Celine dion songs give you strength and faith.....

♥Thats the way it is♥

I can read your mind and I know your story
I see what you're going through
It's an uphill climb, and I'm feeling sorry
But I know it will come to you

Don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When you question me for a simple answer
I don't know what to say, no
But it's plain to see, if you stick together
You're gonna find a way, yeah

So don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When life is empty with no tomorrow
And loneliness starts to call
Baby, don't worry, forget your sorrow
'Cause love's gonna conquer it all, all

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

That's the way it is
That's the way it is, babe
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is.


love it...♥.♥

wee~~ short hair

I cut short hair jor lor..

wee^^

Sunday wee~~

Ya, same like every sunday i turn on the pc and playing with the friendster and blogging here and there . later i will be working again duh . i just read some of my frens blogy and i realize that
nowadays there will be so much of failure in a relationship. No confident , having insecurities in their own relationship.

A signal before he try to break up with you is

:there try to avoid your message
:getting aufully close with his ex
:lost of the patient and telling that he was busy what so on project and bla bla bla
the main point is this when a girl as him whether you are still in love with me? defenently he will answer you yes, i just wana happy with you but haha don't trust it
its lie

But its happen around me my frens
Thats why people choose to be single all the time


Ya finish crapping with those thing, ya
i 'm goin to enjoy my Shopping Spree weeee~~~~
For my chinese new year oh
Next month with my best best buddy
she kinda busy so have to choose it on saturday and sunday, i don't understand what's sort thing she busy on. GUys? ngek ngek ngek
She kinda flirty girl
oh God, she goin to kill me shen she saw this

opss its time i hav to cut off here c ya next time
Bye Guys and gals
Take care lots
BYe
MUAcks

i Love you all

Change Yourself?

Change yourself
You've paid the price of 6 months' happiness for someone who no longer wants to be a part of your life. It is time to put all these to a stop. Stop hoping that your ex might have a change of heart and reconcile with you, stop waiting, stop crying and most importantly, stop the self pity. Stop thinking that, if you continue with your low self confidence, people will have pity on you and care for you. No. That will never happen. The world is cold and brutal. I believe that even the best of friends that a person can have, might one day turn his/her back on you. This is life. There is no fairy tale.

You should take charge of your own life right now. Convert your self pity to anger if you must. That's what helped me recover from my previous depression.

• He cost you your friends. He has many friends, yet because of him, you've lost yours.


• He cost you 6 months of happiness. He left you when you needed him, so that he could find his own happiness. He is selfish.


• He cost you your physical appearance. You were so upset about the break up that caused you to face acne problem.


• He cost you your self confidence. He made you feel bad about yourself. And no one should feel bad about themselves.

Always think this way, repeat this thought everyday if you must. "Why should I be upset while he is enjoying life right now? He is not worthy of my time at all."

Of coz these tips won't work immediately, you'll need time to adapt, but if you try, it will work. People say time is the best medicine. I've heard people rebut that, time does not heals, it teaches. Whatever people say, it's true that only time can help. You've wasted 6 months of your life feeling sorry for yourself, feeling guilty that the relationship with your ex didn't work. What if you had used that 6 months to take charge of your life, and let time help you? You wouldn't even send me the email asking for help right now. So stop wasting time anymore, start taking charge of your life.

After the self pity stops, you'll eventually gain your self confidence back, not alot, but at least bit by bit. It is always easier to change yourself than to change others. Change yourself first, then people will change their perspective towards you. I'm sure you don't want to be remembered ten years later, as "Anonymous. Who?". Don't let yourself be a shadow in your life, be the one that stands out from others. Make people remember you. Make new friends, throw yourself out in the open, take chances and live your life. You'll only be 22 once a year. Why waste it on worrying about something that you won't know? Be confident, and you'll be happy.